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If you're not sure, then he's not the one. You'll know when he's the right one because you'll just know. That said, don't worry so much about that sort of thing... the most important thing is just to be happy... if you put too much pressure on defining the relationship, it will just cause stress for you both. Is he the one? Maybe he is, maybe he's not. In the meantime, just enjoy being together, and if you don't enjoy it, let him go. There is no "right age" to have sex. You are ready when you are ready, and when you are with someone who you love and feel comfortable sharing your body with. I was 17 when I did it for the first time, and I really wish I had waited. I have friends who lost their virinity earlier than that, and almost all of them have expressed regret in not waiting. I'm not saying you have to wait for marriage (unless that is your personal belief), but at least wait until you're in a committed, monogamous relationship with someone you truly love. If it were me, I'd talk to my friend about the situation. Tell her you like this guy and that you'd like to date him. If she seems upset about it, don't date him. Your girl friends are much more important than guys... crushes and boyfriends will come and go, but your girls will always be there for you!