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i have this friend who always bosses me around and when ever i say no to doing somthing for her she gets mad at me and makes me cry
May 2nd, 2009 @ 12:32 PM
Vicky Says
Report Feb 9th, 2012 @ 07:53 PM
Sorry to be so blunt, but I am not so sure that this person is your friend. A friend should be someone that helps you grow as a person, not someone who puts you down. A friend should also be someone that is kind to you, does fun things with you and makes your self-esteem soar. How is her making you cry helping you become a better person. Start sticking up for yourself and learn how to say no. Next thing you know she is going to want you to hurt someone or yourself physically, are you going to say yes to that too? Think about it!
cherrylvr1 Says
Report Jun 24th, 2009 @ 12:34 PM
if your friend is going to keep doing that to you, you should stick up for yourself and she is probably only using you so it looks like they have more friends and are popular.

when you are friends with someone, they should be nice to you and you should be nice also, but a friendship should always benefit both sides of the relationship. be friends with people who wont put you down becuase that is mean.
dorfus31 Says
Report Jun 24th, 2009 @ 11:41 AM
just like i tell my friend who has the exact problem stick up for your self your not a robot and she doesnt hold your remote controlling you i have told my friend many times hid eoyur feelings when she yells yel backshow her your true pride
emkay23 Says
Report May 7th, 2009 @ 12:43 PM
Girl, you need some boundaries! It is ok to tell people no. One person can only handle so much. Let her know how she makes you feel and set those boundaries, then stick to 'em! If she continues, it's probably time to end the relationship.
amber5520 Says
Report May 4th, 2009 @ 10:42 PM
I think if your friend makes you feel this way when you say no, maybe she is not a friend at all. She sounds pretty selfish, i mean, does she ever do anything for you? If she is all take and no give, maybe its time to end that friendship.

I have learned over the years that a friendship should benefit both sides. You need to surround yourself with positive people, people you enjoy being around and who dont put you down.

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