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Must you be educated to be a good parent?
Weird question I know. But someone once said this to me and I am curious to know what everyone else thinks. Must you be have education after highschool to be a good parent?
Mar 29th, 2009 @ 08:36 AM
Nyaz Says
Report Apr 30th, 2009 @ 05:20 PM
If by 'educated' you mean formally trained in an university, well, probably not. But, if you mean 'educated' as in someone who knows about the world and has been exposed to many different things and ways of living, then yes. Of course the primary factor is LOVE, but having a parent that is experienced and understands about the world does make them a better parent. University education isn't a must, but, more often than not, it is in the university setting that most people are exposed to diversity and alternate ways of thinking.

I think it has to do with your values. For me, it is the parent's responsibility to teach the child how to communicate well and think independently. This means teaching your child how to be a critical thinker, with the ability to consider many different aspects of a situation. Often these skills are not taught until school.

Love isn't everything when raising a child. It's just the main ingredient. And while university education is not a necessity, having enough education and/or world experience to give them a strong foundation is extremely important.
Punky2006 Says
Report Apr 30th, 2009 @ 08:41 AM
No way. For example, my daughter wasn't yet walking at her 15 month check-up. Her pediatrician said "Oh she's going to need physical therapy for sure". My husband (who did not finish high school) said that was ridiculous and baby would walk when she was ready. Guess what? She started walking one week later and has never had any therapy. I'm just saying that you know your kid(s) better than anyone and if they are happy and healthy, you are a good parent.
jujuvoodoo Says
Report Apr 29th, 2009 @ 05:37 PM
there are so many things that you can not learn from a book,unfortunately society has people doubting their self worth this way,your only value being your rank.see how far a degree gets you in the wilderness.hopefully you will teach your children and they will teach right back.there is a lot to be said for common sense,street knowledge and a will to survive
Voorheesm Says
Report Apr 27th, 2009 @ 11:16 PM
of course not, as long as you love and care for your kids it doesnt matter if you went to college
katyasag Says
Report Apr 27th, 2009 @ 11:01 PM
of course not, there are plently of PH.D's out there who are complete idiots when it comes to parenting...
ditz237 Says
Report Apr 27th, 2009 @ 09:58 PM
Having one parent highly educated (masters level) and one that didn't become educated (associates level) until later in my life, the educated one is the ass. My only concern is money. If you are lucky enough to have a good job without college education and can provide for children education has nothing to do with parenting.
Vivie Says
Report Apr 6th, 2009 @ 05:02 PM
I don't think so. Having an education beyond high school doesn't make you a better parent. In my opinion, what makes you a better parent is the love, attention and dedication you give your child. Provide for them the best way you know how.

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